Travels With Dad

The greatest misfortune for a child is the loss of a parent. Dad was born in July 1918, when Nikšić was still under the Austro-Hungarian occupation. At the end of that year, his hometown became part of the new Kingdom of Serbs, Croats, and Slovenes. Raised by his widowed mother, he excelled at school and became one of the youngest graduates at the Belgrade Law Faculty. During World War II, he joined the antifascist resistance and, as a partisan, fought the Nazis. After the liberation of Yugoslavia, he fell in love and married a girl from the Danube plains.

As a diplomat, he served a country that, during the Cold War decades, punched way above its weight. Living with our parents in Turkey and Lebanon, and travelling the Mediterranean, my brother and I acquired the skills necessary to navigate the choppy waters of the global world.

This text is based on conversations with my father, family letters and documents, my mother’s agenda annotations, and my diaries and readings. It reconstructs our timeline until the summer of 1965, while the dialogues reimagine the essence of factually accurate scenes, places, and relationships.